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Wednesday, May 26, 2010

dating?

today huh?.....
from what happen today keeps me wonder

[dating]

WHY must people need to DATING for pointless ending.....
doesn't it seem pointless?... da~
to those my friend,
i not trying to complain or trying to make fun of you
but this topic always bugging me
it's annoying you know!.....
i want the truth!
i really hope you don't mind about it but

[WHY?]

WHY most of you, my friend, really take serious about dating?
sometimes it give me the creep but it makes me wonder~ WHY?
what the point you all trying to prove....
from my point of view
only few of those couple stick together till the end of their life
and other seem like just want to try out the feeling
even some of you did khalwat (means berdua-duaan)
but did you know
there was hadith about
Prohibition berkhalwat

Observed that mean: "Any man will be two-pair (berkhalwat) with her, but certain ones will be the third."
(At-bete)

Explanation
1. Women are forbidden to men who are not berkhalwat muhrimnya where berkhalwat not necessarily occur in the home, but it also can occur in a quiet place without the attendance or viewing by the public as parks, lakes, offices and so on.

2. Seclusion is permitted by Islam in the sense of seclusion 'retreat from the public for the purpose of worship of Almighty God' as Allah's happening on the berkhalwat at Hira '. He distanced himself from the pagan community to perform prayers to God.

3. Satan is a brilliant creation. As long as there is a spare opportunity, it will tempt people to commit heinous acts. Therefore we must be cautious. Never approach the door to throw into the fire as good as the last seclusion menjebakkan themselves to fornication, and so on.

SO......
to whom actually we really must treasure our heart to!
well beside our parent of course...
who is the special one?

but i know now
and i really want to share it with you all
the thing is

we live for Allah
the only mighty Allah
nothing to compare Him

there one said that

Love And Hate God Beat All
Hadith:
Abdullah ibn Abbas r.ahuma, that the Prophet had prayed, "O Allah, I submit to you, I believe in you, I am relying on you, I look to you and I fight for you. O Allah, I seek refuge with the dignity and strength of you, I worship no other God but you, I am not deceived. You who live and die while the jinn and all mankind will die (Muttafiqun alaih)


Narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim

Explanation
1. Prayer is efficacious for the believer, therefore pray to God to give himself fully to the faith and trust and praise of their properties.

2. Every man of God should be put to the full expectation that received prayer.

so....
what the conclusion is?
is it........
better to love someone that only to full fill their lust
or to love someone forever and after

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